{"id":402,"date":"2016-08-28T16:30:19","date_gmt":"2016-08-28T16:30:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stories.kera.org\/debt\/?p=402"},"modified":"2016-10-12T16:40:18","modified_gmt":"2016-10-12T16:40:18","slug":"struggling-with-the-stigma-and-shame-of-debt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stories.kera.org\/debt\/2016\/08\/28\/struggling-with-the-stigma-and-shame-of-debt\/","title":{"rendered":"Struggling With The Stigma And Shame Of Debt"},"content":{"rendered":"

KERA\u2019s series One Crisis Away: Drowning In Debt focused on North Texans struggling to pay back money owed. These stories struck a chord with KERA listeners\u2014many commented that they could relate. Others weren\u2019t nearly so sympathetic. Here’s a look at what’s behind the shame and stigma surrounding debt.<\/em><\/p>\n

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In the world of economic research people talk about “financial well-being<\/a>.” Kasey Wiedrich\u00a0with the Corporation For Enterprise Development<\/a> in Washington D.C. explains.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe concept of people being able to make ends meets today, be on track to meet their goals in the future, and have a sense of financial freedom to be able to enjoy life,” she says.<\/p>\n

Translation: money for now, and later\u2014something that\u2019s difficult for a lot of people. Close to half of Texas families don\u2019t have enough money on hand to last three months after a serious disruption to their finances. That may explain why so many people are in debt to begin with.<\/p>\n

Not Much Talk<\/h5>\n

Wiedrich says folks with credit card debt or back taxes for example, aren\u2019t inclined to talk about it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think far more people are in those situations than perhaps recognize or disclose to others around them,” she says.<\/p>\n

Because, people are ashamed of debt. There are many different kinds of financial hardship\u2014a job loss or not being able to save for retirement, for example. But there\u2019s something about debt that makes people feel like failures.<\/p>\n

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April Ford looks over papers in preparation for the new school year at her home in North Richland Hills. Photo\/Lara Solt<\/p><\/div>\n

Folks In Debt Feel Shame<\/h5>\n

Here\u2019s how Fort Worth resident Angelo Collins describes it. In our series, we shared his story of falling behind on child support<\/a> and paying down credit card debt.<\/p>\n

\u201cKind of like a real gut feeling that I got punched, and someone took all the life out of me,” Collins says.<\/p>\n

April Ford who also lives in Tarrant County, filed for bankruptcy<\/a> about four and a half years ago. Here’s how she describes her state of mind before finally making that decision.<\/p>\n

\u201cReally depressing, it was stressful, it was overwhelming, it got really really bad, to a point where I just was like I\u2019m tired and I want to give up but I knew I couldn\u2019t give up because I have the kids,” she says.<\/p>\n

And Katie Combest from Lewisville has $38,000 of student loan debt<\/a>. The music teacher and clarinet player has enough money to live on, but can\u2019t get a mortgage because she\u2019s self-employed, and drowning in debt.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt used to make me feel really horrible about myself, honestly,” she says. “Because people look at you like you\u2019ve done something wrong, like a policeman when they pull you over, well you have this, and you don\u2019t have a W2 and instead of having pay stubs, I have to show them my bank account.\u201d<\/p>\n

“I think that the concept of financial shame or sort of shaming people is maybe related to the fact that we just don\u2019t talk about our finances enough.”
Kasey Wiedrich, Corporation for Enterprise Development<\/div>
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Listeners Weigh In<\/h5>\n

All three of these people are working and steadily paying back what they owe. They also feel guilty, and it\u2019s not all in their heads. Here are just two of the dozens of social media comments posted about the series.<\/p>\n

\u201cHaving a hard time feeling too much sympathy.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cSorry, life still costs, ready or not.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Kasey Wiedrich from the Corporation For Enterprise Development explains.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd I think there\u2019s that sense of people that taking on debt may be a sign of perhaps you\u2019re living beyond your means or you\u2019re not able to manage yourself day to day and you\u2019re having to rely on others to meet your obligations,” she says.<\/p>\n

People who\u2019ve worked their whole lives not to take on debt may have a tough time connecting with those struggling to get out from under it. Others may be comfortable with a mortgage or car loan but have no tolerance for high interest credit card debt. Wiedrich says it all depends on what someone believes.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think that the concept of financial shame or sort of shaming people is maybe related to the fact that we just don\u2019t talk about our finances enough,” she says.<\/p>\n

And judging by the reaction to these stories <\/a>over the last six weeks, that conversation is beginning.<\/p>\n

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Rene Munguia works to restore a 62 Ford Thunderbird for a friend at his home in Ovilla, Texas. Photo\/Lara Solt<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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